"Too much of a good thing is good for nothing”
Sometimes
Choice
IS
The problem
Questions that boggles the mind:
- When one is presented with many choices how does one choose to get a favourable outcome?
- Once one has chosen, can one live with the choices ones made?
- How does one make the right choice in the right time, for the right reason and circumstance?
The Dilemma:
Each choice brings with it a consequence one will be left to live with, experience as a result of choosing.
*Sigh* blessed as we are with the power of choice “sometimes, choice is the problem.”
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Ah, the problems of choice do invade the senses leaving one gasping for air :)
ReplyDeletesure enough
DeleteTrue dat! To be or not to be…
ReplyDeleteThat is the question :-)
DeleteAlways heard my friend saying this: "it’s good to have many choices outside there but the problem is which offer should I pick? Headaching…"
ReplyDeleteYes, what to choose, when to choose, how to choose and in choosing what am I going to have to live with as a result of that choice.
DeleteHeadache indeed.
True talk oh. The problem is what to choose..so many to choose from.
DeleteYes, as blessed as we are with the freedom to choose it can be a problem, nothing is free and everything has a price.
DeleteYes, I agree. Sometimes choice has to be make quick and spontaneous, sometimes it’s good to sleep it over. There is no rule.
ReplyDeleteHug,T
True enough
DeleteWell said.
ReplyDeleteI like this line of thought.
Thank you, its a truth one can't hide from although at times we wish we could
DeleteWe have choices to make from the day that we are born. Choices that teach us right from wrong.
ReplyDeleteCorrect.....
Deleteif we are transform from the lessons yes we can recover and keep moving forward.
Yes o. I always say the reason why many ladies have a hard time choosing what to wear is because they have many clothes. It wouldn't take them long if they had only 1 or 2. Lol
ReplyDeleteAh you nailed that one.....too many choices sometimes leave one floundering and indecisive.
DeleteIt is a problem faced by one and all.The choice of what to dress or what to eat never poses a problem as we can easily change.But the problem is acute where one cannot very easily go back on some choices without some suffering.
ReplyDeleteNamaste....
Deleteso true, so very true.
The headaches of making a choice and sticking with the outcome whether good or bad.
ReplyDeleteAh therein lies the rub, to live with the outcome.
DeleteInteresting.....
ReplyDeleteinteresting yes,don't be shy to express yourself.
DeleteTruth absolutely, most of us articulate implicitly when we feel we have clearly made a choice because we have thought of the possible consequences and chose based on the circumstances the lesser of two evils.
The debate to negate arises when we steadfastly deny choosing a particular outcome simply because we feel we did not, NOT engage in the process of choice forgetting that in failing to make a decision (wrong or right, good or bad) that we have essentially chosen (i.e. we have left it up to another to do the choosing, we by our silence, refusal to choose) hence we by default are left to deal with the consequences regardless if we desire it or not.
The power is always in our hands...even when the possible outcomes sucks
True say
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm....i concur
DeleteI was long in No 3 .
ReplyDeleteHow does one make the right choice in the right time for the right reason and Circumstance?
But next time I will has good choice.
Have a nice day!
Michiko
Very good question Michiko, very good question. I guess the truth is we don't always know and we do the best with what we have at the time we need to choose.
DeleteWith many choices, one can get stuck in analysis paralysis. At some point we just have to take all the information we have an make an educated decisions. And trust even if we make an unwise choice, God still knows how to work that for our ultimate good.
ReplyDeleteAh Wanda so true - analysis/paralysis, I have been inflicted by some of those. You are absolutely correct, thank you for sharing the wisdom.
DeleteThis is an interesting post. What is the meaning of choice or making a choice? Within one would know what a bad choice is and what a good one is. If you make a choice to be the best lawyer in the world, for instance, you know that you have to work your way to the top. If you have a recurring doubts about it then it was not meant to be a choice. Again, choices might be influenced by societal pressures and wanting to please certain individuals as the case may be. It depends on the particular individual per se.
ReplyDeleteSome choices may be wrong. some right. but hey, one cannot always make the right choice at the right time. that's why life is a teacher and we go for it with all our best. fantastic questions ma.
you got me thinking here. simple post yet deep
True enough, at the time we are making decisions we think its the right one based on how we are feeling and what we are dealing with, it is only later in the consequences we know for sure if it was a good/bad choice. At that stage if we are open to learning we get the lesson(s) embedded within the experience. If we are not up to learning, owning, growing, well then, brace yourself because life's gonna be a bumpy ride.
DeleteMaking a choice out of options isn't just about the present or immediate future...there will always be the consequences of the choices made after. Choose wisely!
ReplyDeleteAh therein lies the challenge - choosing wisely! aye!
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