As
I sat on the train for my morning commute to work, I observed as I often do
people coming in and out, reading their kindle, nextbook and other tablets as
well as newspaper, books and magazines. Three stops into the train ride an
Asian gentleman in mid to late 30s came in and sat on the three-seater directly
opposite me. He sat down, put his head back and closed his eyes. Periodically with his
eyes still closed he would move his feet back and forth in a heel and toe
motion.
As
we all waited patiently for the people to finish boarding and the train to
continue its journey a man of African descent, early to mid-40s boarded the
train with a newspaper in his hand. He sat down on the side seat next to the
Asian man. He turned slightly to the right to accommodate his long legs, as he
adjusted himself some more, the newspaper fell the same time the Asian man
rocked his feet back and forward as a result the Asian man's left foot pinned
the newspaper to the ground. Oblivious and seemingly unaware of the distress
his foot was causing he remained unknowingly uncooperative. What happened next
would rock his world and shock me.
The
man of African descent tried to pull the paper, as he tugged the Asian man with
his eyes still closed again rocked his feet back and forth. It almost seemed as
if the Asian man was playing with the other man when truly he was unaware. The
man of African descent attempted to pull out the newspaper but was not fast
enough as the Asian’s man left foot descended on it again pinning it down. Frustrated
the man of African descent pulled hard on the newspaper and it ripped. He became
angry and picked up the broken newspaper and slapped it across the Asian man’s
face. The blow was ineffective because the Asian man didn’t make much movement.
The man of African descent seems to get angrier because his blow didn’t elicit
a response. He then with lightning speed retrieved the newspaper, folded it and
slammed it into the Asian man’s face. The Asian man jumped up with an outcry as
passengers simultaneously gasp in shock horror.
The
Asian man cried, “Why you hit me, what I do.” The man of African
descent got up and walked right, to the end of the train car. He paced back and
forth as the Asian man continue to ask, “Why you hit me.” The man of African
descent said nothing but his body language dared the man and anyone on the
train to do something about what they’d witnessed. He then walked slowly back
toward the Asian man his back straight, shoulders squared and his eyes spat
fire as if to say, “touch me, retaliate, I dare you.” As he neared the Asian
man he deliberately slowed his footsteps and puffed out his chest. The Asian
man seeing this look sat quietly, his poster angry, his eyes in disbelieving
shock as he watched the other man walk slowly to the opposite end of the train
car.
The
Asian man kept looking down to his left and asking in a low tone, “what happen,
why he hit me?”
The
Filipino woman that sat next to me on my right answered. “He was angry because
your foot was on his paper and when he tried to remove it got ripped.”
The
Asian man looked at her and said, “Paper? What paper? What you mean?” She again
tried to explain but he was in too much of a daze to comprehend what she was
trying to say.
For
the rest of the ride the Asian man kept shaking his head. At one point he
closed his eyes as if to sleep but I could see he was visibly upset because his
face at times would turn red. Other times he would his nose and squeeze as if
the held back tears. I felt bad for him and even felt my own tears.
Periodically throughout the rest of the commute he would open his eyes and look
to the left where he last saw the other man went and he would shake his head.
I
thought, ‘God have mercy, how things could just visit upon us with absolutely
no provocation and then you are left to deal with the consequences, the
emotional and psychological impact,’ because make no mistake that moment, that
experience has changed him forever.
I feel so sorry for the Asian gentleman. What a sad even for you to have to see.
ReplyDeleteI know right. The experience shook me and i was a observer. All i could do was yell hey!
DeleteWow. This sounds like fiction. But how come the Asian man was not aware of all the things that happened before he hit him hard? I still don't get.
ReplyDeleteHe was not aware because he was seated with his head thrown back and his eyes were closed the whole time until he got slapped with the newspaper. I learned a great lesson from that experience - to never completely check out and to be aware of my surroundings.
DeleteCity life . . . *sigh*
ReplyDeleteI know right?
DeleteYour title says it all...in the blink of an eye...sadly (and unfortunately) that is just the way of the world these days. Sad, sad, sad.
ReplyDeleteI'm just stopping by to say hello and to wish you a nice weekend.
bloody scary if you ask me. Who looks forward to being randomly slapped?
DeleteI still don't understand why the Black man could not have tapped the Asian guy to remove his leg from his paper. Simple communication
ReplyDeleteHope you're good. Have a fantastic week
Right? He probably was spoiling for a fight. Who knows he better hope karma don't come and bite him in the ass.
Deleteit tells us to be aware of what we are doing..may be inadvertantly we are hurting someone..
ReplyDeleteOh you hit is just right. that was the lesson i got from witnessing the madness.
DeleteVery sad events that little things like this start a huge eruption! I feel for the Asian man , I hope it doesn't have a Big impact on his life.
ReplyDeleteTrust you are well Rhapsody , Hugs Sheila x
I have no doubt it will have an impact, it had an impact on me!
DeleteHe will never sit so casually on the train again.