2 FRAYED/UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES INVITES INTERNAL & EXTERNAL CONFLICT

Be mindful of whom you associate yourself and allow access to your person. People with unhealthy boundaries, fractured boundaries, and no boundaries will not hesitate to use, violate, molest, manipulate and employ control tactic against you with single minded determination. If you are a person on the receiving end you may think it is you that you have said or done something wrong. To be blunt, sometimes it got absolutely nothing to do you who and have everything thing to do with them and the opportunity your vulnerability presents. This is the norm of how they choose to operate because it works for them. Your hurt, your emotional pain and disillusionment is of no consequence to them.  If you have encountered people like this as most of us have do not despair or beat yourself up for your poor choices rather learn from them. Some people come into your life as a lesson to build and develop your boundaries and a warning for the further to ensure they stay in place and are reinforced. 

When you know better do better, until then you do the best you can.

Stay blessed.

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