When confiding becomes co-opting
Asking becomes demanding
Convincing becomes manipulating
Timing becomes calculating
Thinking becomes obsessing
Showing concern becomes intrusive
Advising becomes unconstructive criticizing
Acts of kindness becomes malicious
Stop and ask yourself what is your intent and purpose
If it’s any of the above then it is time to take an account...
Do something about that which can be, undone-your next move!
And alter toxic behaviours that harvest such outcomes.
You may not be able to undo the past however you can do everything about your present and future actions.
My Point:
Check yourself before you wreck yourself. You are responsible for your actions, words and deeds.
Peace.
D.S.B.Rhapsody©All rights reserved
True love will always give without expecting anything in return.
Greg
Our house will not look better if we burn some else’s home down.
ah, it is in the mastering of that ideal that we create ciaos.
DeleteI have to give you your props for compare and contrast. Very good. God Bless you and Hotep.
ReplyDeletethank you....
Deleteblessings to you to.
So very true. Thanks for wise words!
You are welcome
DeleteYou think we could send this to some of our politicians to give them a clue? They probably would just shrug their shoulders and say "It doesn’t mean me!" Nice post. Peace.
ReplyDeletehaha....true enough.
Deletethanks
Pheww! Very well said, ma! Just like words spoken, can't be taken back... It's best to think, before you speak.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely...
DeleteBeautiful as always.. Feels good to be back.. Thanks for the Love & for always checking up on me Rhapsody. :)
ReplyDeleteBaraka*Blessings*
Thank you....
Deleteno worries, its a pleasure
ok...I have to do a spot check on myself.
ReplyDeletehaha....yeah, already did mine
DeleteVery wise words Rhapsody , yes I am a great believer in think before you speak.
ReplyDeleteHave a great week.
Sheila
Indeed its a wise way to conduct oneself, not an easy lesson to learn though yet truly neccesary
DeleteThese are deep words. It is like drinking from a well of wisdom. thank you for this post.
ReplyDeleteHappy to share my well with you.
Deleteyou are welcome
amazing post doll just amaze
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ReplyDeletebefore I read your words Rhapsody!
I has too much raining day for almost 20 days.
Have a nice week!
Michiko
hmmmm...wise.....
Deletefind the blessing in the rain,
Beautiful, simply beautiful and so very true. This is a great reminder for those of us who sometimes forget the lessons here. Thanks for the wise words.
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome....
Deletelessons lessons lessons, life is one big teacher
There are two sides to the same coin- the same action can be done with different intentions. You have summed it up very well!
ReplyDeleteFor me, "accountable" means be responsible. Never blame other people for whatever life misfortunes. You must take charge for it and stand for it.
ReplyDeleteHmm, words of wisdom for me. Time to look inwards. Thanks, RP.
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