tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post5582603669319100939..comments2024-02-13T06:49:09.093-05:00Comments on Rhapsody Phoenix: The Wisdom of Confiding in OthersRhapsody Phoenixhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-36111133176716293662016-05-29T15:23:25.458-04:002016-05-29T15:23:25.458-04:00Thank you.
One has to also to able to stop anothe...Thank you. <br />One has to also to able to stop another from confiding in them as sometimes that knowledge can put you in an awkward position especially if there is close relations/family etc.Rhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-73573541634123903412016-05-29T07:29:47.964-04:002016-05-29T07:29:47.964-04:00Very sound advice. As I read your words I find mys...Very sound advice. As I read your words I find myself thinking has anyone ever asked me before spill out their truths. Wandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07438544740170524813noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-39577310708352387732016-05-29T00:24:17.423-04:002016-05-29T00:24:17.423-04:00Thank you Kay.
It is good to have someone to share...Thank you Kay.<br />It is good to have someone to share your troubles and concerns with, we just have to ensure that those with whom we choose are willing to keep our confidences.Rhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-60228888450228874102016-05-29T00:22:27.262-04:002016-05-29T00:22:27.262-04:00May of? lol.....
Whatever wisdom is bestowed upon ...May of? lol.....<br />Whatever wisdom is bestowed upon me is by God's grace.Rhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-90339935764291455832016-05-29T00:20:56.377-04:002016-05-29T00:20:56.377-04:00In all relationship one has to have boundaries. It...In all relationship one has to have boundaries. It can be challenging when you don't have healthy boundaries in place. It become more difficult as you learn to assert boundaries and teach those around you a new way there is bound to be some discomfort. While your family is upset as you set boundaries and hold strong to them they will soon learn to respect them as you respect yourself.Rhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-12488638542303672352016-05-25T12:20:04.197-04:002016-05-25T12:20:04.197-04:00This is such good advice! I try not to burden anyo...This is such good advice! I try not to burden anyone but my closest friends with confidences, I don't even have to ask them anymore because I know they would want to know. I love how you framed your question to get assurances before unloading problems. I can tell what a wonderful friend you are.Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07461569436322815787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-39317496467724137182016-05-24T08:06:25.632-04:002016-05-24T08:06:25.632-04:00Wow. Serious wisdom is this. It's all about de...Wow. Serious wisdom is this. It's all about defining boundaries and being courteous. Thanks for the insight.<br /><br />Loooolllll. Lemme know when you become mayor. I would like to visit you.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.hattylolla.com/2016/05/my-true-life-runaway-story-2.html" rel="nofollow">My True Life Runaway Story (2)</a>@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-21387785811911723902016-05-23T15:26:20.888-04:002016-05-23T15:26:20.888-04:00Great post!! I'm not sure why but in my family...Great post!! I'm not sure why but in my family everyone comes me with their problems without asking first. And now, I am at the point where I do dodge a lot of calls and keep it brief. It is a heavy burden to bear everyone's secrets and problems. They get mad at me now because I just straight up tell people to seek therapy for things like that I'm literally tired. Style4Curveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07182487798088658077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-16258001565345172472016-05-23T13:35:21.899-04:002016-05-23T13:35:21.899-04:00Yes, the sharing of secrets should be a selective ...Yes, the sharing of secrets should be a selective process because it can be a burden as you take on the responsibility of not repeating that which is shared with you in confidence.Rhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-19548796310920546922016-05-23T13:33:45.386-04:002016-05-23T13:33:45.386-04:00Well bless your soul, not everybody is that courag...Well bless your soul, not everybody is that courageously honest.Rhapsody Phoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03520384490148575528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-36551139409536563512016-05-23T09:05:32.596-04:002016-05-23T09:05:32.596-04:00I am terrible about keeping secrets, so if someone...I am terrible about keeping secrets, so if someone wants to confide in me, I tell them that I cannot promise to keep their secret, so please don't tell me. It works for me. :-)DJanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07152183871573797791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5783129196655831049.post-53773318688962994922016-05-23T08:06:52.277-04:002016-05-23T08:06:52.277-04:00I think when you are telling somebody something de...I think when you are telling somebody something deeply personal you must always ask them for permission... I know people who are extremely honest and state they don't want to know... some people can't handle the burden as they have a lot on their plate. Sadly you are right that there are many who will just run and tell it to someone else... we need to be very selective... It's good ifLaunna https://www.blogger.com/profile/09447311902825477772noreply@blogger.com